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SINDHI
A Peacock Minded International Citizen
An
extract from the book - 'Sindhis - The scattered treasure'
Ms. Popati Hiranandani
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When
I entered my brother's home in Singapore, I found in his drawing
room a Cambodian painting, depicting a scene from the Mahabharata;
an oil painting of a half naked girl from the Bali island, sculptures
of a Korean bride and bridegroom; dolls showing a Mumbassa couple
in one corner, and a dancing Spanish boy and girl in the other corner.
The house was modern and complete with German electric fittings,
Chinese bells, Persian carpets and Indian curtains.
My brother is
married to a Chinese girl who follows the Buddhist faith, dresses
like a Malayan, speaks English and relishes Indian dishes. Their
children have pure Indian names (Sushma, Suvir and Vivek), can speak
English, Malay and Chinese fluently; they enjoy Hindi movies; are
fond of Sindhhi papads and relish Indian Paan.
A
Chinese maid cooks Indian dishes, the Malay maid cleans and washes
and an Italian girl is the typist. His day starts with listening
to Gita-slokas in Sanskrit sung by Lata Mangeshkar, followed by
Pt. Ravi Shankar's sitar recital. When he feels tired after the
day's work, he listens to the tapes of Gazals sung by Begum Akhtar.
At another moment he switches on his favourite Sindhi songs sung
by Master Chander, reminiscent of the bygone days.
One will perhaps
react to this profile of my brother as a jumble of faiths and fashions
and a pot-pourri of cultures and languages.
But
these are the ways of a Sindhi - an international citizen. Throughout
the ages, Sindh was invaded by people from the northwest. All these
diverse races and religions that penetrated Sindh, were somehow
absorbed in the melting pot, and fused with the ancient heritage
of Mohenjo-Daro. Strange phases of history have gone into the making
of what is called "Sindhi Culture". The Sindhis have not
only survived the attacks but have benefited from and assimilated
all that was good in the mores of the lives of the invaders. The
Sufism of the Sindhis is a harmonious blend of the finest value
of both the Vedantic and Islamic cultures.
Non-Sindhis
are amazed when they see a Sindhi Tikana (Mandir) which has the
holy Sri Guru Granth Sahib (the Sikh sacred book) installed in the
middle with all the gods and deities surrounding it. All the religious
sects among Sindhis are in harmony with each other. The Lords Krishna
and Rama, Hanuman and Shiva, Vishnu and Brahma all the deities are
worshipped with equal enthusiasm in a Sindhi temple. Devotees worship
Hanuman on Tuesday, Shiva on Monday, Jhulelal on Friday and the
Goddess Kali on the Ekana days, Shri Satya Narayan on full moon
days, together with their paying homage to the sacred Sri Guru Granth
Sahib. There are no restrictions and no hard and fast rules laid
down on the basis of religion.
Many Sindhi
wives do not touch a morsel of food unless they finish their puja
of their idols giving them bath and offering them dry fruits for
'Bhog', reciting prayers either from Guru Nanak's teachings, or
from Sadhu Vaswani's Noori Granth, Satya Sai Baba, Chinmaya Anand
or Swami Shradhanand or a personal guru.
The Sindhi Brahman
has also advanced with the times. In Sindh, he used a Sindhi name
to Christian a new born boy like Pamo; Dhamo, Jhamat and Jhaman
and a girl as Popati, Pevi, Menghi and Tikki on their horoscopes;
today he uses names such as Naresh, Vikram, Prithvi, Diti and Kaushalaya
or even fashionable names of movie stars with a suffix of Kumar
or Kumari.
All this may
sound flippant - but it emphasises the root of the Sindhi character.
A Sindhi follows the most secular philosophy of humanism. He never
restricts himself to dogmas or rituals. The legacy of all embracing
love for mankind has made the Sindhi cosmopolitan in his outlook
and universal in his temperament. His social structure is not ridden
with prejudices of caste, colour and creed.
There are no
Shudras among the Sindhi Hindus. There is neither the domination
of the Brahmins nor the evil of untouchability. Sindhis are known
for their realistic & practical outlook. The traditional ills
of ancient India, like child marriage, cruelty to widows and casteism
are not for them.
A Gujarati will
remain a Gujarati, cooking his food in the pure Gujarati way, even
after staying in Fiji Island for the whole of his life. A Sindhi
adopts an international outlook after being in a foreign country
for only a year. He will try all kinds of dishes and flavours and
yet will remain a Sindhi in his own peculiar way, abusing in his
favourite Sindhi words, enjoying typical Sindhi dishes of Khichhri
& Sayee Bhaji, Curry Chawar, Dhodho Chatni and Kok Palo whatever
and wherever he may be !
A Sindhi is
a staunch Indian with a strong streak of patriotism. He helps Subhash
C. Bose in forming his Azad Hind Fauj or in establishing Jaslok
Hospital contributing crores of rupees for the laudable cause. He
invites the Indian Cricket team at a dinner party in Montego Bay,
welcomes VIP's in Hongkong, helps charitable institutions in India
and patronises Indian movies in England.
He entertains
the Indian High Commissioner to a "Despedida pasta lunch",
takes keen interest in Indo-Pakistan relations, yet he tries to
do something for the welfare of the people of the land where he
settles down, contributes lavishly to the branches of Rama Krishna
Mission and extends his helping hand in all the social and charitable
institutions and organisations in India.
A Sindhi businessman
thinks in English and carries on his business with his customers
in the local language whether he is in Tamil Nadu or in Spain. He
keeps his accounts in a Sindhi dialect with its peculiar script,
talks to this mother in his mother tongue and makes it a point to
see Hindustani films.
A Sindhi wife
in Spain knows how to prepare the Spanish Pizza, how to bake a Chocolate
cake if she happens to be in England and learns to toast a garlic
butter bread if her husband is transferred to Italy. A Sindhi daughter
in Hongkong can stand behind the bar-counter of her home and fix
a cocktail glass for her father's guest & can decorate the dinner
table in a Chinese style if her would-be husband is fond of the
fashion. She is at ease when she is attired in a Japanese Kimono
and carries herself gracefully when she is wearing a Chinese Samfoo.
She doesn't mind putting on Minis when she is moving near the London
Tower and she feels very glad when her photo appears showing her
clad in a Kashmiri dress. She can blend all the fashions together
getting ready with a Chinese hairdo or a French bun, Indian Bindi
(Tika), Italian shoes and a Spanish dress.
I have seen
Sindhi children in the Canary Islands learning Spanish at school,
speaking Sindhi at home, singing Bhajans in Hindi in the temples
and having competitions in reciting Urdu couplets at parties. I
have found people with peculiar names like Ms. Grace Vaswani and
Mr. Peter Bidichandani in Hongkong, a Ms. Maria Thadani, Mr. Alberto
Bhudwani in Spain and Ms. Siyate Daswani in Vientiane.
A Sindhi either
marries by Vedic rites or the Sikh 'Anand Karaj'. He celebrates
his child's naming ceremony the 'Chatti' in a traditional manner
and yet throws cocktails and dinners to mark the occasion! He organises
shows at the club and rummy tea sessions after the ceremonial Satya
Narain Katha at his residence.
A Sindhi travels
to far off lands where he gets only donkey's meat and radish for
his meal, he buys land in Canada, builds hotels at Miami beach,
deals in Japanese textiles, befriends Chinese people, enjoys Korean
girls, but is faithful to his Sindhi wife.
All through
his life, he is culturally and linguistically a Sufi in his outlook,
adventurous in his travels, tactful in his trade, social in mixing
with people of different faiths and customs, liberal in his views
towards social norms, generous in giving and tolerant towards all
faiths and beliefs.
A Sindhi is
a peacock minded person. Such is his life and his story. Historians
record his voyages in Babylon and Egypt, Basra and Baghdad and his
acumen in business. He is a fusion of cultures, faiths and languages
exchanging with the people their way of living and thinking wherever
he may be.
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